i have to start being more aware of the things i cant change. i'm on a boat in the ocean, the water is nice and blue and i can see all the pretty fish in the sea, then all of a sudden this wave comes and shakes up the boat. i might get shaken up and afraid for a few minuets, but i cant control the wave. i have to allow nature to do its thing, and eventually it will pass by.
the frightening wave doesn't take away from the beauty of the ocean.